This is for people who are confident enough. This is for the people who have enough achievements and milestones and have found their niche in this world to prove their self-worth. People like you. You know that you have done a great job in getting where you are and yet, you also know that there’s still a way to go. You are in a good place. Acknowledging what you have and what you need is very important to getting where you want to be.

You are most probably in a plateau, where it is high enough to see the bottom. You must be reflecting and reliving the climb. If you’re thinking of a job, looking back to your first day in the office could be amusing. If you’re unto a business, the day you start off the enterprise is something every entrepreneur is proud of. Now, if you’re concerned about your confidence as a person, a lot of us will mark first year high as ground zero. Whatever it is, all of that is way behind you.

Now, you’re looking at taking up new heights.  Is that a major job promotion? Is it a career change? Or is it a massive business expansion? Or you just realized that you have found your perfect partner in life and all you need to do is to let her know? That’s tough. You’re already seeing the journey and challenges ahead. You’re probably weighing the risks, being the practical person you are.

As you might already know, this is not a question of choosing the right decision. It’s not a matter of what, or which but a question of when. You know that you have to take the step. You have to act now, if not, then maybe tomorrow or next week. You know that if you don’t make the move, you’ll be stuck forever in your plateau, or slide back to where you’ve started. There are no choices.

So what’s holding you back? Right, it’s the confidence. You know you are good; in fact you are confident that you are great where you are right now. That is mainly the reason why you are contemplating on taking on another level up. You consider yourself capable enough to handle bigger things. You think you’re ready for better things.

What you are afraid of is how you will fit in your new position. Will you be a good boss as you’ve been a good follower? Will the girl like you as someone more than a friend? Can you manage a corporation as well as the medium business enterprise you started with? Will you be a success? That is the real issue, right?

Getting out of our comfort zone can be intimidating. Achievers don’t want to fail. Nobody wants to fail. Nobody wants to slide back down the ladder of success. But whose ladder is that? Who set the measure of success for you? Is it your father? Are you conforming to the society’s established yardstick of achievement? Or is it just your own idea of what is successful and what is not?

If you’re thinking of other’s opinion and measures of success, then any change for you will be hard. You will forever be driving yourself to succeed. And once you achieve something, people will expect you to get more. That expectation will drive the pressure. Pressure and fulfillment have never abided with each other.

Focus on what you want. What makes you happy? Who are you as a person? Are you whole enough that you don’t need the outside world to spell out your happiness? Are you considering the position because you think you can serve the company better? Will you be happy even if the girl opted to be just your friend? Are you worried because you might fail them?

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As you are on this page, my guess is that you don’t feel confident enough. Is it how you look? You don’t feel gorgeous enough? Do you think your skills aren’t that outstanding enough? Your brain isn’t that sharp enough? Usually, it’s about a girl or a guy who you think is way out of your league.  It happens a lot because we keep comparing ourselves to the perfect models of what we perceive as our ideal persona. You constantly dream of that ripping six-pack abs, sky-high IQ and your boss’s job. You have conditioned yourself that if you’re just to have these qualities, you’ll be on top of the world, successful, confident and happy.

We all know that in reality, that is not the case. Here’s a list of quick fix, often advised solutions to your sagging self-confidence.

• Power Dressing – Dress to success. Good clothes are said to lend confidence to the person wearing it. Looking good and feeling expensive will boost your confidence as you walk up to your girl or enter a room for a very important presentation.
• Power Walk – It has been established that a person walk could reflect his level of confidence. Trotters are known to be more confident, while the slow walkers are those in the dumps.
• Hold your Posture – A man that sits with his back straight, could look you straight in the eye, and keeps his chin up is a man of substance. So better not slouch and make a conscious effort of maintaining a good posture.
• Highlight your Strengths – Make a list of your good qualities and read them out to yourself whenever you’re feeling low. You can also go to forums and listen to motivational speakers.
• Be Thankful – Again, you have to make a list, this time put down all things that you are enjoying. Family, good health, a job, friends, talents, world peace. Focus on what you have and avoid dwelling on what you don’t.
• Pep Up Others – Give good cheer whenever you have the chance. Don’t be stringy with your praises. Always look at the good side of everyone. Eventually, all these will come back to you.
• Front Rows – Confident people always sits in front. They are not afraid of visibility. On the other hand, people who always seek the backseats or stay in the background are afraid of calling attention to them, thus lacks confidence.
• Speak Up – Don’t hesitate to voice out your opinion and thoughts. Most people are afraid of speaking up because they fear rejection and ridicule. So keeping their ideas to themselves are better alternatives than committing mistakes in public.
• Sweat it out – Another highly taunted confidence builder is body building, or at least keeping yourself physically fit. Exercising will definitely build you up physically and amp up your energy level as well. A sense of accomplishment that results from improving your physical appearance is always good for confidence building.
• Give, Give, Give – Another fell good activity is giving. Just thinking on the contributions that we are capable of giving will sure boost confidence.

These are just some of shallow and superficial remedies that you can do to fix your slumped self-confidence. That’s right. These are just temporary solutions. They might work for you in some situation and in some point in time, but not for all time and all circumstances. Dressing up might make you feel good about yourself, but what happens when you dress down? Are you sure everyone else like your suit?

The key to real confidence should start within you. It’s in knowing your inner self. The “you” that is not dependent on other peoples’ opinion. Focus on yourself as that is where you have absolute control. Trying to please the people around you will only prove frustrating for the simple fact that you cannot please everyone. Start on pleasing yourself. Happiness and confidence will follow.

There are ways, effective ways to do that. They’re actually simple and plain to see, we just have to realize and accept it. We can teach that to you. If you’re interested, get in touch with us for a free 30-minute coaching session. It might just be what you need.